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A Guide to Love, God, Prayer, Meditation, & Peace Within You—Right Now

Why Are My Prayers for Companionship Unanswered?

Elena: “Why are my prayers not answered in meeting a nice man and getting married? Everyone else is ahead of me in getting married. I deserve a good man who loves me. I am turning 40 next year and I am worried about my life. Why has God not sent me a kind man who understands me and who is meant to marry me? I have wasted 5 years in a situation where I have made the effort to no avail. Please do not tell me to wait or that nonsense of being patient. I have been more patient than most people would be in my circumstances!”

The Voice for Love: “Holy Precious One, it is a joyous occasion to be with you in this way. You have expressed yourself in much carefulness and patience. You have waited, quietly for much time. Now is the time for casting aside waiting.

“Allow yourself to feel the energy of life coursing through you, and follow it. Wait not for a special man–YOU are the one who will unleash your heart. You are waiting for another to push a magic button to unleash your love. Let it now flow, uninhibited from this moment on. Allow your heart to bubble forth, to speak, to laugh, to express much joy, for today is the day! Today is the day in which you forget all of your patient, hard work of waiting and move into happy living.

“You have many interests, dear one. Allow these interests to fill your awareness. Allow them to swirl about you as if you were the eye of a storm. Notice the delight and energy in these avenues of interest. Notice which ones make your heart leap with joy. Allow yourself to spend time in these interests. Do not wait. What is one thing you could do today, right this minute, to pursue your special interest? Can you make a phone call? Can you join a group? Can you write, paint, compose? How can you take a step into that which interests you?

“If you cannot even take one step because you see before you a sea of disinterest, then this is your homework: notice the disinterest. Allow it to fill your view and say ‘Thank you.” Keep saying and feeling ‘Thank you’ each time you see or sense your disinterest, in anything; a television program, a conversation, a thought of boredom. Be quiet a moment and then send a big ‘Thank you to your disinterest in whatever form it appears in front of you. In this way you are connecting to your heart and practicing extending your true self.

“Dearest One, you have been saving yourself for someone special. You are the special one. Give your heart over to yourself and see what wild pleasure ensues. This is the most attractive energy on this planet: the energy of one who completely enjoys his or her own company. This joy is a light in the darkness and will attract others who want to bask in the warmth of the heart. Begin today, do not delay. Notice your interests and give yourself over to them, or notice your disinterest and practice saying thank you. In giving of yourself to yourself in this way, you open the door to giving yourself to another.

“Thank you, my precious one, for taking time to listen and be bold in your not waiting any longer.

“Amen and Selah.”